Can you really just be too confident? It is an interesting question, especially if you have spent years being told to speak up, believe in yourself, stop doubting yourself and finally take up some space. But what happens when you actually start doing it? You become more direct. You stop asking for permission. You trust your decisions. You say no without explaining yourself for twenty minutes. And suddenly, someone tells you that you have changed. You are arrogant. You think y

You know that moment when someone asks what you want for dinner and you say, “I do not mind,” even though you absolutely do? Or when you have a thought in a meeting, feel it forming, and then watch someone else speak before you because you have already decided theirs will sound better? Shrinking yourself does not always look dramatic. It can happen in tiny, almost forgettable moments. You laugh off the thing that hurt you. You say yes before checking whether you have the time