Have you ever noticed that you seem to become a slightly different version of yourself depending on who you are with? Perhaps you are confident and talkative around one group of people, but quiet around another. You might laugh more with certain friends. You might become more serious around certain family members. You might find yourself agreeing with opinions that you would normally question. You might change the way you speak, dress, behave or even the things you pretend to

In the back of our minds there is a question that can feel almost selfish just for asking it. Is it okay to love myself more than I love other people? For some people, the immediate answer will be no. We are taught to love our family. To care for our friends. To put our children first. To be there for the people we love. To make sacrifices. To give. To forgive. To put other people before ourselves. There is something beautiful about caring deeply for other people. But what ha